A Lesson from the Streets

I recalled a moment observing a man sitting on a curb outside a Coney Island in Detroit, seeking money for food. Despite having coins and crumpled bills before him, he continued to ask for more. If he truly felt hungry, why not use what he had to buy a meal?

His situation highlighted a vital truth: thoughts can only take us so far without action. He needed to transform his thoughts into action—simply walk inside and order food.

The Philosophical Reflection

What does “I think, therefore I am” signify? This phrase, introduced by 17th-century philosopher René Descartes, serves as a philosophical affirmation of existence. It asserts that the ability to think is proof of one’s existence.

Now, what follows? Is it time for CBA?

Everything originates from a thought. Although thoughts are powerful, they require action to manifest. This leads us to the CBA approach.

First, I Conceive the idea of surrendering my will and life to the care of God. Then, I Believe that I can do this, trusting that He will guide me, as He has for many others I’ve met who shared similar struggles before finding AA. Their transformation from doubt to joy inspired hope in me.

Finally, I Achieve this surrender. According to Webster, to achieve means to successfully carry out or attain something through effort.

Turning Over Control

What exactly should I surrender? From childhood, I learned that a verb represents action. Hence, I must utilize the insights gained from the first two Steps of AA to accept a Higher Power and surrender everything—without exceptions.

When should this surrender occur? Right now!

“God, take it all. I can’t manage alone. I need Your assistance immediately!” This reminds me of a humorous exchange about spelling “right”—it’s not that “mousey” kind of “rat”; it’s “rat now!”

This illustrates that I shouldn’t surrender my will timidly, but entirely and unreservedly—keeping it surrendered 24/7.

How do I achieve this?

For me, the simplest approach to the AA 3rd Step is to simply say, “God, help me.” Then I step back and allow Him to take charge.

When should I do this? Whenever I encounter those pivotal moments in life when I find myself asking, “What now?” The answer is “God, help me.” It’s straightforward. While not always easy, it remains simple.

By doing this, I am living my program continuously. Today, I feel Happy, Joyous, and Free, as the Big Book describes. This indicates that if I can achieve this state, so can you—IF YOU ARE WILLING TO GO TO ANY LENGTHS TO GET IT!

Seeking More than Despair?

Have you reached your limit of suffering? Is it time for a change? CBA can guide you: Conceive the belief that God can and will support you. Then, Believe that if He has helped others, He will assist you as well. Ultimately, you will Achieve happiness, joy, and freedom.

Does this guarantee perpetual laughter? Not necessarily. However, it means that when life presents challenges, you will face them in the best possible manner for yourself and those around you. Thank you, God!

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